I'm Jess Bangshow...

And I'm here to help you attract the relationship and life you desire.

I’m the woman you come to when you’re tired of repeating the same patterns in love, friendships, and life...

And you’re ready to love yourself deeply, feel safe in who you are, and attract the relationship the life you're truly meant for.

Quick Backstory: I grew up in a home shaped by divorce and emotional instability. For years, I carried those patterns into my own relationships: settling, over-giving, performing, and abandoning myself in order to be "chosen."

Everything shifted when I learned to love myself first...

To trust myself, soften into my feminine, and feel safe simply being me. That’s when my life began to feel fun again. Expansive. ALIVE. And that’s when I attracted my husband. Because I chose myself first, I attracted a partner who enhances the life I love, not one I need to escape into.

For the last seven years, we’ve built a deeply supportive, passionate, and playful partnership, traveling the world with two suitcases, building businesses together, navigating some of life’s hardest seasons side-by-side, and sharing some of the most joyful ones too.

And our relationship just keeps getting better and better... deeper, sexier, and more fun as we grow.

My work is about helping you do the same in your own way.

I help women love themselves deeply, heal their patterns in love, reconnect to their feminine, and create relationships and a life that feels exciting, intentional, and full of love... the life you were meant to live.

You can have the relationship and life you desire...

You just have to become the woman who can receive it.